non-toxic positivity means you have to talk about negative things to empower you into acting towards recovery
it also means never talking about negative things is toxic because it only hides wounds that will worsen if not taken care of
talking about what's wrong in your life is taking care about yourself and therefore everyone else around you and especially your loved ones
take care of yourself
toot.party is a generic Mastodon instance open to queer people and allies. I try to make it as much a safe-space as I can, but then it's a collective effort.